Get over it, guys! Just because your lover doesn’t want to slob your knob doesn’t mean you have to immediately start testosterone injections.
Take a deep breath and consider the following.
1. Take a shot at manscaping.
There’s nothing attractive about a man’s groin that resembles a jungle. To others, the more hair the better. To each their own, but for many women and men faced with “Is he really expecting me to hunt in that jungle for his junk?” it’s a real turn-off to end up with pubic hair between your teeth.
2. Ditch the whole “au natural” thing.
In the gay community, there’s a tribe that really appreciates the Matthew McConaughey-type with his “au natural” scent — no deodorant and crotches that smell like jocks. I’m not a straight woman, so maybe the same holds true for some of them as well. All that being shared, if your junk stinks, “Why would I eat it?”
If you want your man or woman to consider blowing your pied piper, consider a run to Bath and Body Works. Why not lather up and give your guy or gal a free bottle of their favorite body wash as well?
3. Prove that you’re STD-free.
Depending on your relationship, level of trust and where your partner thinks Mr. Happy might have been, there’s always the possibility of “He gave me…” If you’re going to suggest, require, demand oral sex, be man enough to offer a condom, or documentation that you’ve got a clean bill of health.
4. Don’t try to force your penis down their throat.
A sommelier is known for their years spent becoming knowledgeable in all aspects of wine. Once they taste a wine, they may gag, spit it out and not swallow. It holds true in the world of a fine fellatio as well.
As full-bodied as an erect penis might be, if your partner doesn’t find it tastes good or feels that it’s being forced down their throat causing them to gag, then they’re likely to spit it out. And they sure have the right to say, “Are you crazy? I don’t swallow!”
5. Return the favor.
If you want a BJ, you better be ready for an even trade exchange. Many women complain that their man wants them to spit dive on their penis, but their man isn’t willing to dive into the vajayjay for mutual ecstasy. In other words, equal pay for equal play.
While the ultimate foreplay, aphrodisiac, and knee-shattering orgasm might come from a man getting a masterful or even amateur blowjob, if you’re going to expect this from your mate, then be willing to give a little on your end, even if that might mean giving up your end to bring them pleasure.
Source: YourTango.com