Lots of people have landed themselves in what is supposed to be a cool experience but instead, a sour one. Come to think of it, the idea of reserving ones self (Male/female) until that special day for the special someone tends to sounds good but wouldn’t you rather want to know your yet to be husband/wife inside out?
Well, wouldn’t say much but will leave you with these pointers to figure out for yourself.
These are reasons why I feel sex before marriage is worth it. Even as I don’t mean to advise you young minds out there to go testing everyone you have a ‘bit’ of feeling for. These are for matured minds and adults ready to settle down.
Sexual identity.
I know too many couples where one partner was able to cover up his or her true sexual persuasion because he or she simply didn’t have sex with anyone. Not having sex with the opposite sex can also mean you ignore those longings you might have for the same sex, and therefore don’t acknowledge them.
Sexual chemistry.
Everyone has what goes for them. Your spouse may be the one who loves it in aggressive way or what ever way. The point is, the chemistry got to be there.
Sex itself.
Not everyone is great in bed, and most people don’t start out very good at all. A lot of good sex is about listening to your partner and being able to respond accordingly. But how do you know if someone is a good listener or responder unless you try it first?
Size.
Don’t you want to know if your husband is packing a hunting rifle or a tiny little plastic kid’s pistol? After all, he knows how big your boobs are. I’m not saying size would be a dealbreaker, but don’t you have the right to know what’s down there?
Sexual issues.
Sexual problems like premature ejaculation, inability to get an erection, or even an allergy to your partner’s semen are all possibilities; wouldn’t you rather deal with those issues before you’re married? This way you know if your future is even going to address them.
Let’s face it, sex plays a big role in marriage. Just like you should discuss children, religion, and where you both want to live before tying the knot, sex is too big a part of a relationship to leave to chance.
Source: 360nobs
