Marriage is not just one of the biggest things that happens in your life, but also a start for many new experiences as well. And, your first night is the beginning of it all. So, it is very important that it becomes an experience that is special and memorable. However, it is natural to be a little nervous amd anxious, as expectations run high. But, it is important to divert your mind on having a good time together as this night would be very special for your new relationship!
Dear would-be husbands, the task of getting rid of the nervousness and anxiety, and making your first night a beautiful memory lies on your strong shoulder. You have to make sure that you leave a loving and considerate impression in your wife’s mind. To help you out, here are a few tips on how to woo a woman on your first night.
Take it slow!
Guys, it is understandable and natural to be restless about getting intimate for the first time. However, if you rush in and expect the same from your partner you might be in for an unpleasant surprise. Approach the topic of intimacy slowly and gently. Remember it is not just about getting physically intimate or having a good time, here it is also about building a foundation for your new relationship and life. So, instead of hurrying into the action, take your time.
Make her comfortable
It is important to make your wife feel comfortable on the first night. You must remember, she is equally (or more) nervous and anxious as you are. If you are making your wedding night as your first night then remember that she might may also be tired and exhausted from the lack of sleep from the previous night. Any which way, first try to soothe her a little. Make the nervousness disappear. Talk to her like a friend, share a few jokes, comfort her and compliment her. This will be good for both of you.
One step at a time!
Start with a little flirting and take it from there. Start with complimenting her on her beauty, smile, eyes, etc. Always maintain a subtle eye contact with her and smile. Wait till she feels comfortable and her shyness dissolves. Start with a little touching (like her hands, cheeks or even hair) and if it goes well steal some little kisses. Be a gentleman and let your partner set into the right mood of the wedding night. Your considerate attitude will definitely make her open up and connect with you emotionally and physically!
A romantic and thoughtful gift
It is also a tradition in many cultures that a groom is supposed to get a gift for his bride on their first night. Well, custom or not, it is definitely a great way to make your wife feel special and comfortable. If you know what she likes then get her something accordingly. If she likes jewellery, you can gift her a beautiful pearl set. If your bride loves books then get her a rare edition book by her favourite author. If she loves flowers, set the tone of your night by giving her a bunch of roses. Well, we think we have given you enough hints, now it is on you to put some more thoughts and creativity into these ideas.
The most important thing for your first night is to be yourself and let love take over. Be genuine to yourself and to your partner. The joy of making love on the first night is unforgettable as it is a night of commitment, care and trust.
Source: Bollywoodshaadis.com
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