Here are top four tips for making your sex life, well, sexier.
1. Use the element of surprise
Surprising your partner is a guaranteed way to always have a good time during sex.
Whether that’s wearing nothing but an apron while cooking dinner for your partner or playing strip games before things go down, be spontaneous and creative.
Always have that sexy element going on. It can be any kind of element, but surprise them. Do it in different places. Anywhere from the mile-high club, which is wonderful to be able to do that, to the laundry room — just be spontaneous.
2. Plan ahead
Nothing can spoil the mood more than a pile of laundry sitting on the floor next to the bed or a sink full of dirty dishes just inches away from the counter that you’d like to spontaneously have sex on.
Get your chores done. Get all of your distractions out of the way. Prepare yourself and your environment for the evening. And the same goes for when you’re planning a romantic getaway!
Do you homework beforehand (book the hotel, make dinner reservations, pack your special toys, etc.), so all you two have to think about is what you want to do to each other.
3. Theme it
From pirates to cops and robbers to superheroes, the possibilities (or sexibilities?) are endless if you just use your imagination. Theme it all the way from costumes to props to decorations around the bedroom, and have fun with it.
4. Talk dirty
Talking dirty is a must if you want to take your sex life to the next level.
Remember that you’re with someone you care about, so don’t feel shy when it comes to describing what you’re wearing, telling them what you’re going to do next or asking them to do stuff to you that you’ve always desired.
Sex is always passionate and intimate, but it also can be a lot of fun.
Source: Datingadvice.com
