Ever find yourself bored with the same ol’, same ol’ when it comes to sex? If so, then you are like the vast majority of other couples out there, so don’t worry. To keep things fun, interesting, and very naughty, here are 4 sex games that you can use to keep sex with your man, both, fun and pleasurable.
You will notice that some of these bedroom games are on the tame side, while others are very much on the kinkier side. So, don’t feel like you need to use them all. Only try the ones you’re comfortable with. Oh, and make sure to talk to your man about them so that you are both on board before diving in.
1. The Tie Down
This is one of the kinkiest sex games you can try. That is tying your man down to the bed and “having your way with him.” Sounds like fun, right? It is, but you need to get a few things right if you want it to go really well.
First, you need to discuss it with your man to make sure that he is comfortable with being tied down. If he is not, then discuss it further to see if you can change his mind. Whatever you do though, do not force it on him … that’s a recipe for absolute disaster.
Next you need to agree on a “safe word'” to use in case things get out of hand. Once he says this word, you need to stop what you’re doing and make sure that he’s okay and not in any pain or distress. Make sure the safe word is something that you wouldn’t normally say during sex, like “Israel,” “potato,” or “Starbucks”.
Keep in mind, you’ll need to find something to tie your man down with. For many, stockings or some neck ties are perfect. Others want something a little sturdier. If you want something sturdier, then just Google “bondage restraints” and you’ll find a huge selection of restraints to use on your man.
When tying him down, you can just tie his arms down by the wrists; or, if you want to have him fully restrained, then you can tie his legs down, too. Once he’s tied down, then you are in total control, so straddle him and start having your way with him!
2. Dice Play
That last bedroom game is more on the domination, kink side of things. If you are looking for a game for the bedroom that’s a little lighter and will help ease you into the idea of playing bedroom games with your man, then you should try the dice game.
To play it, you are going to need a pair of regular dice with six sides. Next, you need to take a piece of paper and a pen. You are going to use the pen and paper to make two lists of six items each.
On the first list, write down sex action verbs. Here’s an example:
On the second list, write down a list six erogenous zones, like this:
Remember that these are just examples, so feel free to substitute them for your own action verbs and erogenous zones if you like.
Once you have your list made, take turns at rolling the dice. When the dice come to a stop, match the numbers on the dice to the action verbs and erogenous zone. So, if you roll a “1” first and then a “6,” that means you need to kiss your man’s ears for ten seconds. Once you do this, then it’s your man’s turn. The really great thing about the dice game is that it’s incredibly easy to play and not so kinky that it will put him off.
3. Calendar Of Positions
Another easy to sex game is what I like to call the “Calendar of Positions.” In this game, you will need a calendar and a list of sex positions. You can start with five or 50 positions; it’s really up to you how many positions you pick. Then you just need to add a new sex position to your calendar each day.
It’s especially fun to play if you and your man share a calendar online or your smart-phone. Mostly because, you can add a new position to the calendar and your man will be in for a nice surprise the next time he opens up the shared calendar.
While you’re probably very excited to start playing this game and plan out a huge amount of different positions, I always advise starting off small with just five or ten new sex positions to see if you each enjoy it.
Firstly, apologies for the weird name. This last bedroom game, “Wrestlemania,” is very similar to the “Tie Down,” as you will need to agree on using a safe word before you start playing. For safety purposes, I’m going to repeat myself here: Do NOT attempt to play the “Wrestlemania” with your guy unless you have both agreed on using a safe word.
Alrighty, now onto the game! To play, the goal is to pin your man on his back (or his stomach), while on the bed. Meanwhile, your man will be fighting you off while he tries to do the same to you. The catch is that he needs to keep one of his arms behind his back for the entire length of the game. This handicap will help to even the playing field (or bed)!
Then, proceed to wrestle and struggle with your man for a minute or two. All the tossing, grabbing, struggling, and straining is the perfect way to start foreplay and sex with him. The trick to making “Wrestlemania” fun and exciting is not to get too serious about it or the rules. Just focus on having fun and enjoying yourself. If you do, you’ll be surprised at just how hot and heavy things can get.
Ugandan Millenials are Ghosting out of Relationships
By Staff Writer
Gone are the days when boyfriends and girlfriends would sit down and agree to end a relationship. Now, Ugandan millenials have changed the trends. They are just ghosting.
According to research, Ugandan couples no longer suffer with breakup lines. “He simply stops talking to you. He stops replying your messages. Then you just figure out that the relationship is done,” says one of the victims of ghosting.
According to older generations, ghosting is a cowardly way of ending relationships. But it turns out millenials are also ghosting at jobs. “You employ them, they work for some months then they just stop showing up. Next thing you know they moved on to another job. It is unprofessional,” says a human resource director.
Let us hear from you. Have you been ghosted? Have you ghosted before?
How to Attract the Opposite Sex Effortlessly
Do you want to know how you can become more attractive to the opposite gender and catch all the attention? Grooming tips and great clothes can make you look good, but to be attractive to others around you requires something completely different. Find out here.
Nothing is as attractive as someone who is completely comfortable with the way they look and who they are. Believe in yourself and that you are worth everything that comes your way.
View the glass as half full. Compliment and remind yourself to do it and you’ll see the results in no time. The ability to see the good in everything not only makes your life easier, it gives a spring in your step and adds to your charm.
Forget about your diet at least one day in a week and treat yourself to some creamy Belgian dark chocolate ice cream. Step out from under your umbrella and dance in the rain. The ability to let loose and not worry about the reactions of others makes you shine.
Keep an Active Social Life
We are, as a species, social in nature. We love to be with our fellow humans and take great pleasure in social groups, so throw off those comfy tracks and go out no matter how tired or lazy you feel. Once you get there, the fatigue will vanish, leaving you with a sparkle in your eye. Seeing someone having fun with their friends is hot!
Don’t Think About the Competition
It’ll just bring you down. People tend to underestimate themselves, which is good in a few ways, but always keep in mind that you have a few traits that no one else has, and this sets you apart.
It’s scientifically proven that smiling and laughing release endorphins that make you feel happier. Not only does it give you a mood booster but it makes you look more approachable and not intimidating in the least, so people will be more open to coming up to you.
You have to leave the opposite gender guessing. That’s part of the fun and leaves them wanting more.
Be Able to Laugh at Yourself
Whether you have spinach in your teeth or whether you fell down the stairs, if you stop and think about it, it is funny. So laugh and watch how many people warm up to you.
Make “Me Time”
Everyone needs to spend at least half an hour a day by themselves. Meditate, reflect on the day or just relax. It’ll do you a world of good. Deal with all your work beforehand and spend some time by yourself before you turn in, so you can fall asleep and wake up with a sunny, happy aura that others would love to share.
You see, being an attractive person with loads of sex appeal is easy, as long as you remember that it is more about yourself, your happy aura and your confidence than anything else.
The Top 12 Qualities Men Want in a Woman
She is family oriented.
Before I get heat from people who say that not everyone is close to their family and that doesn’t make them a bad person or whatever – that goes without saying. Let’s keep in mind that I speak from my own perspective and to me, a woman who values both her and my family is important when considering a long term future. I’m sure most men who someday want a family of their own would agree with me.
She is kindhearted.
I’m not quite sure how to explain this one. I feel like just the word ‘kindhearted’ in itself gets the point across. A woman who is thoughtful. Loving. Caring. Who does small things for you for no other reason that she loves you (as you do for her). A woman who, when she smiles at you, gives you no choice but to smile back. A woman who radiates warmth from her heart. That is a woman a man would want to marry.
She is intellectually challenging.
There is no denying that someone’s looks are what initially draws us to them. It’s difficult to spot a great personality from across the room. Many a fling was built on physical attraction alone, but how long can it last?
When conversations lack depth or intrigue, we often fill our time with physical activity together, but it is impossible to build a real connection or lasting relationship with someone on that alone. Being intellectually challenging and having the ability to hold real discussions about meaningful topics, will always trump shallow beauty in the long run.
She is understanding and empathetic.
Being compassionate, supportive, and encouraging towards your partner is a huge part of building a successful relationship. Nobody wants a person who is a “Debbie Downer” all the time and will not support them in their endeavors or their times of need. Life is full of challenges that any couple will face together, particularly a married couple. Sometimes men need a shoulder to cry on, too.
She is ambitious.
In addition to supporting and encouraging you pursuing your own goals and dreams, she will have her own as well. A mature woman has a vision for her future and chases after it with voracity.
A mature woman will be someone you can take on the world with. A partner in crime, a teammate in your relationship, and in life.
She is consistent.
Being consistent is a valuable virtue because it lets your partner know that you really are who you are. You haven’t sent your “representative” to get to know them during the first couple of months of dating, but then suddenly transform once they’ve committed themselves to you.
To clarify the point, think of consistency as the opposite of volatility. If someone is unpredictable and volatile, it’s difficult to know how they will be acting towards you on a certain day, and that gets old no matter how aesthetically pleasing she is.
She is willing to put in effort for you.
I am all about giving in relationships. I believe seeing your significant other happy should also make you happy – but it is important to understand that it goes both ways.
Her putting in effort doesn’t have to be much. It can be something as simple as slipping the waiter her debit card to pay for dinner. It’s no secret that sometimes the romance wears off of longer term relationships, but you shouldn’t let it – and neither should she.
If a woman continues to do what she knows attracted you in the first place, even after she got you a long time ago, it shows she cares about keeping you around.
Side note: Equally as important is to make sure both teammates always show the other their appreciation for this effort. Feeling taken for granted can easily lead to resentment and other negative results in a relationship.
She holds similar values as you.
This is often an extension of the family-oriented point in the beginning, because many times our value system comes from our upbringing. The things we find important (or not), the things we believe in strongly (or not), the way we treat others, and ourselves. It doesn’t matter how attracted you are to someone or even how well you get along, if your values don’t align, you will always be clashing in the long term.
Sorry, but it has to be said. The good news is, every man is attracted to a different type of woman and has his own personal tastes. Meaning, I am in no way suggesting a woman has to fit a certain image of ‘beauty’ in order to be considered ‘wife material.’ But, as is true for both men and women, there needs to be a physical attraction between two partners to kick off a relationship, which also plays an important part in holding it together.
She is friendly and sociable.
I know, at least for me, I enjoy being social and I love having my girlfriend by my side. So, naturally, we will find ourselves together out at events or even just bumping into people at a restaurant or bar. No man wants to be worried about the attitude his girlfriend or wife is going to give to the friend he is trying to introduce her to. He doesn’t want her to turn up her nose or be short with them – it is important that as his teammate in life, she is his teammate in all areas of life.
It is important for a couple to be able to be playful and joke around with each other. It helps lighten the mood, makes extended periods of time together more fun, and laughing together never gets old.
She is loving and affectionate.
This is more of a bonus point. It may not need to be said, because a few of the points above just direct back to someone being loving in general, anyway. But, I think it’s important to state just the same.
For me, affection is important. Holding hands, hugs, just being physically close together. It symbolizes a connection. It’s a warm, loving feeling, and I would have a hard time building a long-term relationship with a woman who shrugs off your arm when you put it around her or always feels ‘separate’ from me.
Needless to say, every man likely has a different ‘checklist’ for what he is looking for in the woman that he would consider potentially making his wife someday, but my instinct tells me one would be hard-pressed to find a guy who didn’t agree with the points listed here.
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