Performing oral sex on a woman is an art. No one just simply knows how to do it. You need to be able to listen to body language and you should have some experience under your belt. If you are terrible at it, you have no business going down there.
Here are 4 big signs you suck at oral sex.
1. She is quiet
If you’re going down on your lady and she’s virtually silent, you’re not hitting the right spot. Your biggest clue to the fact that your woman is enjoying your technique is that she’s making noise. The clitoris is directly in the center of the vagina, so if you’re off center you’re missing the mark.
2. She squirms
If she keeps moving while you’re going down on her, she’s probably trying to get you to hit the spot that feels best for her. She might move her hips around in an effort to help you reach the right so, so follow her lead. Or, she might press down on your head for firmer pressure or touch your chin or jaw to lighten the pressure up. If you keep following her lead, but she’s still shifting around and isn’t making much noise, you’re probably better off using your mouth to ask her what you can do differently. Rather than guessing on your own, check in with her and ask if there’s something else you could try. That gives her permission to provide tips that can help her reach orgasm — and takes the pressure off of you to figure it out.
3. She does not want it
This might seem like an obvious sign, but it might take time for your woman to open up to the idea of letting you put your face down there — and for the two of you to get it right. If the relationship is new, then give it time. Not all sex in a great relationship is great right off the bat. You can connect intellectually or socially like a house on fire, and need time to get it right in bed, so just because the oral sex isn’t great right away doesn’t mean it won’t be with a little time. In other words, practice makes perfect, so keep at it.
4. She does not orgasm
The female orgasm can be tricky. There’s no “one oral sex technique that fits all,” since every vagina is shaped a little bit differently. To figure out what works for the woman you’re working on, pay close attention to the intensity of your performance. There’s a phrase, ‘less is more,’ that’s a cliche and a great rule to go by when you’re performing oral sex.. Treat this part of her body with a little grace if the results you’ve been getting so far are not getting her to the finish line.
Source: Pulse.ng