It is very possible, in a long term relationship, for some people to find sex less exciting than they did when the relationship is just starting out.
If your woman seems uninterested in sex or she has outrightly said she is finding things dull in bed, these three things should reignite the spark.
Get Kinky
If you have been too used to vanilla sex for a long time, then it might be time to get kinky. Sure, sex should be about showing love, but it could also be about enjoy the act itself. Start by a little bit of bondage, blindfold or roleplay and add more hit depending on how you both enjoy it.
Make her the boss
If it has always been missionary or doggy style sex between you two where you always take the lead, then it might be time to relinquish control. Only she knows what can make her feel good so give her a chance to explore. Cowgirl position, sex on a chair, etc are great ways to encourage her.
Be spontaneous
If night time sex is getting boring, give it a twist by doing it out of the bedroom probably catching her unaware in the kitchen as she finishes preparing dinner or in the study when she is stuck with her boring presentation.
Source: Pulse.ng
