Most people would love to get married one day, they’ll settle down with the man or woman of their dreams. We all want to fall in love and spend the rest of our life with that special one, but we must only marry for one reason: love. Marrying for love is the best, because when the waves of destruction come, when your marriage is rocked by so many things, only true love can stand the test of time.
So if you had planned to get married for the following reasons, get rid of these ideas , if you aren’t prepared to let go, then it means you aren’t ready for marriage.
1. MARRYING FOR MONEY
It used to be rampant among the ladies, every girl needed a Sudhir or a Bill Gates but guys are also interested in marrying rich ladies too. No one wants to suffer, we want to live that luxury, that life we see on ‘keeping up with the Kardashians’. You want to wake up in a bed made of gold, you don’t ever wanna struggle or think about raising money.
This is the problem with young lovers of today, where has true love gone? When our grandparents were satisfied marrying whomever they fell in love with?
If you marry someone because of his money, family name or political connections, always remember that all that can get lost.
2. MARRYING BECAUSE OF BEAUTY
It’s okay for us to have preferences, some men prefer lightskinned women, some women prefer darkskinned men, some men love short women while others perefer them tall, some love it when their girl is slender while some want them BBW(Beautiful black woman). It is very cool to have a standard but should that be your primary focus? No!
Don’t marry a woman because she is beautiful, one day you’ll wake up and see someone more beautiful,and that’s when infidelity comes in.
3. DON’T MARRY FOR MARRYING SAKE
‘My mother has been pressuring me to get married’, hello? Marriage isn’t for babies, your mother won’t be there when things would start falling apart. Don’t force yourself into marriage, when you know you aren’t ready, this would only earn you one thing: unhappiness. Don’t succumb to societal pressure, get married at your own time.
Source: Davinadiaries.com
