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3 Reasons – She ‘likes you’ but doesn’t want a relationship with you

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Have you ever been told by the girl you’re crazy about that she likes you but she just can’t think of having a relationship with you?

The minute she tells you that, you’ll conveniently choose to ignore the last part and focus only on the part where she said she likes you. You’ll put yourself in ‘extreme psycho’ mode. You’ll get clingy, you’ll keep calling and texting her, you might even do some extremely bold and romantic gestures of love just to get her attention and you’ll be sure of the fact that you have the ability to turn this ‘liking’ into something more.

Listen to me when I tell you this: these are all very BAD ideas, ideas that you will most definitely regret in the near future. However, all hope isn’t lost just yet. I’m here to tell you the things that can still give you a chance

  1. Stop going crazy over what’s in her head

If a woman says that she likes you, it can mean one of two things – one, that this might be the start of something new for her and something she’ll consider pursuing in the future, or the other more dismaying possibility, that she just didn’t want to straight up break your heart by telling you that she has no romantic interest in you whatsoever.

Whichever the case might be, you won’t just figure it out by obsessing over her every word and move or by wondering and guessing for days what might be going on in her head. Just forget about what she’s thinking and let this story run its own course.

The best thing you can do right now is to free your mind from all your crazy thoughts, to focus on the way you feel and just be yourself. Don’t force yourself on her and don’t try to force a definite answer out of her. If she wants to be with you, she’ll give you the appropriate signals herself.

Maybe you’ll always be just a friend to her or maybe you’ll be something more one day. Whatever the future holds, just enjoy the time you have right now. Just stay casual, have fun with her and show her how great you both have always been together. You’ll be surprised at how much better this plan will work out in your favor.

  1. Challenge her instead of running after her

When you see a guy running after a girl all the time, you can see clearly how she will never come to love or even like him the way he does. It looks pretty obvious from a third person’s perspective but when it’s you in the exact same situation, when it’s you who has started liking a girl and want her more than anything in the world, you won’t be able to stop yourself. You’ll run after her. You’ll get possessive and clingy. You won’t even be able to stop yourself from downright begging. You’ll go to any lengths to make all her wishes come true. And the more you’ll run towards her, the more she’ll want to run away from you.

What you need to understand is that nobody wants to be with someone who is so easy to have, who is so damn accessible and who they know will stick around no matter what. So instead of revealing to her how desperate you can be, instead of begging for her attention all the time, try to get her interested by challenging her. Challenger her over the way she thinks, challenge her for the opinions she has and challenge her over the things she does.

If you disagree with her over something, let her know instead of agreeing politely just to get her to like you. She won’t appreciate you for the opinions you kept hidden and she won’t appreciate you for sucking up to her over every single thing. In fact, these are the things that will probably make her lose respect for you. Let her know that you have a personality.

Let her know that you’re different. And let her know about all the possibilities that she has left undiscovered.

  1. Know when to stop and move on

At one point or the other, it will become absolutely clear to you if the woman you’ve been running after for so long will ever take things further or if she’ll always keep you locked away in this friend-zone that you despise so much. If it turns out to be the latter, then this will be your que to stop.

Stop pursuing something that has very little chance of happening. Stop making this harder on her and yourself. And stop wasting her time as well as yours. If she respects you enough to not tell you off directly, then you should respect her enough to just let go.

The world is full of amazing people and you need to accept the fact that this one person just wasn’t meant for you.

Source: relrules.com

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Video: Zahara Totto beaten by hubby, Big Papa before bitter split

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By BigEyeUg Team

The sudden breakup between NBS TV’s Zahara Totto and her boyfriend, Don Solomon Ugwu alias Big Papa (Oga) continue to surface with more secrets spilled regarding their one-year old relationship.

Issues seem not light at all as we may have earlier anticipated, for the motor-mouthed media personality after another video storming social media today showing a bitter fight between Zahara and now ex-boyfriend, Don Solomon.

In the video, the mother of four is seen ridiculously nagging and clinging to her boyfriend as she begs him not call it quits in their relationship.

She is later thumped to the ground continuously by Big Papa giving her no chance again in his life.

The fight is most-likely to have been a continuation of the leaked audio where Oga was hectically trying to conclude his affair with the ‘Uncut’ show host.

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Sheilah Gashumba’s relationship with boyfriend, Gods Plan on the rocks

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By BigEyeUG Writer

It seems our favourite young celebrity couple Sheila Gashumba and boyfriend GodsPlan are taking a break. Just days after city socialite Ali Marcus alias Godsplan came out on his Snapchat to reveal his break up with his long time fiancée Sheilah Gashumba, it is now clear that the two have let go of each after deleting their pictures as couple on instagram.

According to information gathered, the two who had many pictures of each other all over instagram surprised their fans when they deleted pictures of them as couple leaving their own singles.

It is said that the two love birds had reached the darkest part of it all after they both started hitting at themselves with allegations of infidelity which forced God’s plan to announce their splitting. “I can confirm me and lil stunner have parted ways,” he said.

Sheilah and God’s plan started dating three years ago and have been able to live in the spotlight as a young celebrity couple. The two have been known for living a lavish lifestyle with trips and vacations. They have been able to do things together regardless of their fights.

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Comedian Chiko officially introduced by his fiancée

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Following what the weekend had in store for Uganda’s stand up comedian Frank Mubiru better known as Chiko of the Madrat and Chiko duo alongside his fiancée Ophra, it’s clear that the two are now one.

On Sunday the 9th of August, Ophra an employee with the Civil Aviation Authority officially introduced Chiko to her family in a ceremony which was attended by his friends and family.

With excitement, Chiko shared a picture of himself kneeling down proposing to Ophra his fiancée accompanied with a caption; “LOVE is a journey starting at FOREVER ending at NEVER ….Finally”

Chiko was smartly dressed in an African Designed trouser and a long sleeved shirt.He also added shades which gave him a cool look. His fiancée Ophra pulled it off with simplicity and beauty.

However, the function was attended by a few people due to the restrictions put by the government following the outbreak of the CoronaVirus.

We wish them all the best.

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Desire Luzinda now taking nursing classes, narrates her academic journey

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By BigEyeUg Team

Songbird Desire Luzinda has been conservative with disclosing her activities ever since she relocated to the United States of America but here, she bumps with it.

The ‘Ekitone’ singer has shocked her fans and social media followers back here home in Uganda after parading her pictures appearing in a medic dress code, suggesting that she is now pursuing a medical career.

Desire has gone further to reveal that she is now a phlebotomist, ready to attend to patients in blood laboratories especially after her successful phlebotomy exam last week.

She also opened up about her academic journey that at most times failed because of her music career dominancy.

At first, she enrolled at Makerere University pursuing a degree in Development Economics but unfortunately dropped out two years later because of her thrilling music career at that time.

She was also backed-up with hopes of accomplishing the studies someday.

The curvaceous-lady later scooped another chance and got registered at Nkozi University for Development Studies but her love for education was ruined likewise it was at the first time.

This time round, she failed to have her first exam because it collided with her UK music tour dates.

Here, Desire got discouraged more than never before even when I knew the granite importance of Education.

However, her dream of further education was brilliantly forwarded of recent after bearing more commitment and desire enroll again in another preferable field, which she believes is according to God’s wish.

Desire also vows to stick to her goal this time round amidst all hardships she may meet.

Read her statement in full;

This week as I was preparing for my Phlebotomy exam, many thoughts came to my mind.

Many years ago, I enrolled at Makerere University pursuing a degree in Development Economics which I did not complete because my music career had kicked off in high gear. Having dropped off in year 2, at the back of my mind I knew someday I will bounce back and pursue further studies.

Years later, I enrolled at Nkozi university for Development Studies which I barely did for a year because I had a UK tour that my manager ‘then’ committed to and the dates collided with my first Exam period. I began to get tired of trying even when I knew the granite importance of Education.

Fast forward, as I prepared to enroll ‘again’ little did I know God was preparing for me a career totally different. And while many classmates dropped off because of the virtual classes, I said to myself, “not the third time! I have to do this!” So I chose to push even when it was so tough. And here I am on a many years journey of a career very interesting. My point is, never stop trying at something that makes you a better person. People will always talk but would you rather give them talk of you being successful or a failure?! IT DOES NOT MATTER HOW MANY TIMES YOU FALL BUT THAT ONE TIME YOU RISE UP AND MAKE IT RIGHT. YOUR JOURNEY IN LIFE IS PERSONAL SO CHASE IT PERSONALLY – Desire

Desire moved to the USA in 2018 and since then, she has often been reported pursuing pastorialship until today when she has buried the rumors.

She breads together with her daughter Michelle.

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