Your answers to these questions will reveal if you’re in love. Answer “true” or “false” with the first response that comes up. If you’re thinking about or rationalizing your answers too much, stop answering these questions. Instead, take some deep breaths and relax. Then respond from a place of inner calm.
- I am attracted and connected to my partner physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.
- The thought of my partner makes me happy.
- I feel happy about myself when I’m with my partner and without him.
- I am free to be my true self in my relationship.
- I like who I am in my relationship.
- I love myself just as much as I love my partner.
- I feel good about who my partner is.
- If my partner were to lose his material possessions, I would still love him and be with him.
- I appreciate my partner and his quirks.
- I’m happy for my partner when good things come his way.
- When difficulties come up for my partner, I’m here to support him.
- I feel good about the way my partner and I interact and resolve issues.
- I choose in favor of our relationship; my decisions are for the greater good of our relationship.
- When I have good or bad news, or a challenging situation, my partner is one of the first people I call.
- When we have issues, my initial response is to resolve them, not leave him.
- When our relationship isn’t flowing as smoothly as I’d like, I’m able to be with what is and trust that things are and will be fine.
- I feel content and fulfilled in my relationship.
- I know my partner feels the same way about me as I do him (i.e. we both like and love each other).
- There’s no one else I’d rather be with, than my partner.
- I mostly approach our relationship from a place of love.
You are mostly likely in love if the majority of your answers are “true”. If most of your answers are “false”, you are not in love. You are approaching love from fear and under the belief that love is hard. The bottom line is: if you’re in love with the right guy, love won’t be or feel so hard. You will feel uplifted and loved for your true self. You will know how he feels about you. Your relationship will flow with more ease and when difficulties arise, they will be resolved respectfully.
Source: experts/janet-ong-zimmerman