Here are all the “Don’ts” when dealing with a guy who’s clearly just not that into you:
1. Don’t make excuses for him.
If you sense he’s checking out other girls and their goodies, he probably is.
His wandering eye will never be 100 percent team you.
2. Don’t be naive.
That hot girl “friend” who you suspect is more than just a friend… trust your instincts.
She probably is.
3. Don’t be a texting stalker.
If he’s not texting or calling you back (or initiating texts/calls on his own), he clearly doesn’t want to.
4. Don’t have clouded judgment.
Don’t let your vision be skewed just because you had an awesome date.
It doesn’t mean he rated it awesome.
5. Don’t have expectations too soon.
He may not invite you to chill or hang with his friends. Either he’s not ready or doesn’t intend on introducing you to them.
Know if he is into you, he will be anxious for you to meet all of them.
6. Don’t be a crazy b*tch.
If your man wants to make time for you, he will.
Don’t be a creep.
Stop leaving him messages and stalking his Facebook. It’s unattractive, and you deserve attention from the right guy.
7. Don’t confuse a few dates with being in a declared relationship.
Going on a few dates is not a commitment for life.
Dating is the process to see if you click together.
If you’re obviously not clicking, pick your pride off the floor, and get your priorities in line… because he obviously has, and they don’t include you.
8. Don’t mistake a booty call for more than a booty call.
If you don’t hear from him during the day for plans but always seem to get a late-night text, don’t think he’s going to want anything other than booty.
Booty guy is not about a relationship; don’t try to make him be.
Move on, and find a guy who actually wants commitment… other than at 11 pm every other week.
9. Don’t settle for second best.
If he is always on his phone texting with other people when he is with you, he’s not into you.
He’s rude or easily distracted, and you deserve better than that.
10. Don’t think you are special to him if you don’t feel special.
If he doesn’t show much interest in really learning more about you, or if he doesn’t put thought into some sort of special planning, he clearly doesn’t care.
Not acceptable.
11. Don’t travel down a one-way street.
If he’s not making an effort to make the plans, then you are not his priority.
Make sure you are giving him time to initiate the next date before you jump at inviting him to do something.
12. Don’t make the mistake of not hearing what you don’t want to hear.
If he doesn’t really talk about doing things together down the road or into the future, that’s not a great sign.
“I want to take you to my favorite restaurant soon.”
“I got tickets to the Yankees game next month, and you should come with me.”
If you are in his future, you will know it.
13. Don’t be so eager to request him first on social media.
Lots of guys aren’t as into Facebook or Instagram as girls are.
As tempting as it is to find out more about him, sit back a bit and don’t pounce.
14. Don’t be blind, but observe gently.
Once you are on social media with him, you will see a lot of his business.
He is entitled to his life, and so are you! Don’t get crazy.
15. Don’t be too quick to get serious if you think you really like him.
By all means, enjoy your time with him.
Get to know what he’s like on the inside before you get emotionally or physically attached to the outside.
It’s what’s inside that is most important and harder to get to.
16. Don’t overlook the things Mom would notice.
Make sure he is respectful and courteous (opening doors, letting you know he had a great date and at least offering to pick up the tab).
If he thinks you are something special, he will be a gentleman and treat you that way.
17. Don’t think he’s looking at you if he’s not really looking at you.
If you really pay close attention, you can tell the difference between when a guy lusts at you and when a guy looks at you.
Obviously, the ultimate goal is lust, but if you’re looking for love, he needs to see the bigger package first.
Source: Elite Daily