The good thing about having a lover you are close to and free with is that you two can have fun that no one will get to be part of. Life can be too serious, you two can spice up your love by:
1. “Eating from the same spoon”
It’s not that you can’t afford two spoons. Sharing a spoon is a sign of closeness, try it sometimes.
2. “Giving code names to your private sexual parts”
Get creative. His can be called Big man, Torch, Anaconda; her’s maybe Flower, Honeypot, Hot chocolate, Central business district. Find your own secret codes.
3. “Doing karaoke”
However good or pathetic at singing you both are, go for karaoke sessions or have them in your house. Fool around.
4. “Watching each other pee”
Escort each other to the loo once in a while and watch the act of peeing. Who else can you do this with if not your partner?
5. “Doing role plays”
Act out scenes when making love: she can be the policeman, he the criminal she frisks; he the fireman, she the damsel in distress; she the teacher, he the pupil; he the doctor, she the patient.
6. “Drawing each other naked”
Whatever drawing skills you have, sketch each other and laugh about it or if you’re good, admire it.
7. “Sniffing each other’s underwear”
Come on! Take a scent before you wash it. Natural scents can be a turn on. Know your spouse’s scent.
8. “Sharing a sweet”
Pass each other a sweet or chocolate piece mouth to mouth then kiss. Add adventure to your kissing.
9. “Making a sex tape”
Record yourselves in the act and look at the recording together to see how you do it as a couple. Learn each other. If you wish, delete it thereafter. But do this when married, you don’t want a sex tape leaked to the public by a bitter ex.
10. “Taking a shower together”
Wash each other’s body, scrab his/ her back, sing together in the shower. Apply lotion and massage each other as you talk hearty stuff. It’s only for some minutes but the effect on your bond is immense.
11. “Praying for each other after making love”
When you reach your high, thank God, pray for your husband/ spouse looking eye to eye. Sex is God’s gift to your marriage.
12. “Doing a slow dance”
Play some slow music, his hands on her waist, her hands resting on his shoulders and swing; looking into each other’s eyes. Do this even without music, slow dancing to the beating of your hearts. Romance.
13. “Playing games”
Just between you two, play a game of strip poker, have a pillow fight where the winner claims a prize, tickle each other, chase each other around the house or room, tease each other; act like teenagers in love beacause truth you, you’re still in love
14. “Having picnics”
Drive to a spot, lay down a leso, enjoy the scenery, look at the sunset, look at the moon; cuddle. Don’t only love indoors, get away.
15. “Having pillow talks”
Lay in bed, and talk for hours heads on the pillow or her head on his chest or his head on her bossom. Kiss each other’s fingers.
16. “Cleaning each other’s ears”
One by one, lay on each other’s lap and with soft ear sticks, clean each other’s ears. Such intimacy combined with pleasure. Your partner’s ears have so many sensations waiting for you to blow, lick or rub on them.
17. “Making love in the car”
But make sure the car has good suspensions and is hidden from onlooking eyes. Make love to your spouse in private spots besides the bedroom. Have thrills and when you are older, you will look at each other saying “What a love I have lived with you my wife/ husband!”
Source: Capitalfm.co.ke