It is true that when you love your man truly and completely, you don’t feel the need to lie to him. But then, keeping a secret and lying are two entirely different things, right? And, especially when you know, that the very reason for a secret to exist is to avoid fights and misunderstandings and have a happy and healthy relationship without any guilt or regrets.
If you agree that sometimes keeping some secrets just to yourself helps in improving your relationship, you will also nod to this list of (dark as well as bright) secrets every woman must always keep from her man.
1. How many guys you have dated
Weather the count is one or 10, why bring out what’s now in the past, dead and gone? It will only make him jealous and lead to problems regardless of how cool he might try to act about it!
2. Your feelings about his parents, especially his mom
Yes, there will be times when you may not specifically like his mother. But, talking not-so-pleasantly about his folks might cost you your relationship. Because, somethings are not meant to be said out loud, you see.
3. That you stalk the hell out of his phone when he isn’t around
Of course you are curious about whom your guy talks to, chats with etc., but when he is around, you just pretend as if that’s the last thing on the planet you are worried about! Everyone does it, so all the reasons to keep it under wraps, we guess!
4. That not every Saturday is working for you
This isn’t really a lie technically because you are out during your work hours just enjoying some guilt free ‘me’ time, away from everything else. And if he doesn’t know, he won’t care less!
5. You have a secret piggy bank
Your financial independence and status should always be between you and yourself. No matter how close or committed you might be, you never know when and how people and circumstances might change. And considering how money matters tend to hamper a relationship and even change a person at times, it is better to let it remain a secret.
6. How hot and attractive his best friend is
And the fact that you sometimes fantasize about him! Well, it is not your fault that he’s that hot!! Why create a hell-breaking-lose situation?
7. That you hate his dressing sense
Why on earth does he wear that- is what you think but “you look good honey” is what you say! Just so that he doesn’t feel bad. Much justified, right?
8. You know all there is to know about his ex
Facebook accounts, Instagram, college and school details, address, relationship status right now, name it and you know it!!
9. Your best ever sex was…
Well, at least if it isn’t with your current boyfriend, it is better to stay mum on this one! 😉
10. Your biggest crush for life
Even if ‘the crush’ is an out of reach Hollywood or Bollywood celebrity, men can sometimes get really jealous, so why not just secretly drool over your favourite hero?
11. That you tell your best friend everything about you both
The fights, how good or bad the sex was, family issues, medical problem; your BFF has a minute by minute record of your relationship, but your man doesn’t need to know this.
12. You go to the parlour more often than he thinks
How else do you expect to have the perfect skin, the perfect hair and the perfect nails? No, you weren’t born with it and you don’t want him to know that either!
13. You know about his porn obsession
And you don’t mind it either as he gets all naughty and experimental in the bedroom with you!
14. You constantly compare your ex flames with him
Yes, all women do! We want the best match so we carry out an invisible comparative program in our minds, and besides why should your guy know about this?
15. You cry for him
Whenever he fights, doesn’t stand up for you, is rude or takes you for granted, there is an emotional waterfall. And you just don’t want him to know that you can break down and get weak too.
16. Sometimes you make him feel jealous on purpose
Because it is only then that his true romantic, pampering and extra-loving side will come marching out of his boring self. So, it’s a win-win situation. Yay!
Source: Bollywoodshaadis.com