All of us wish to have a good sex life with our partner, forever. But the truth is that maintaining a good sex life is not easy and it takes time, effort and patience. Wondering, why it is difficult? It’s because our busy lives and taxing situation strips us of all our imagination and add the daily exhaustion level and we are left with a boring sex life. We all wish for better sex, don’t we?
And in case you think that better sex is all about spending hours frolicking underneath the bed sheet, then you are wrong. Better sex is something you can enjoy by just doing something a little different for a change.
So, if you want to take your sex life from ordinary to extra-ordinary this weekend then keep reading as we share 15 tips for better sex.
# 1: Make sex adventurous
When you slip between the sheets with your partner, be a little adventurous. Thinking how to be adventurous? We are here to help.
Use the five different sex acts (like different types of foreplay and vaginal penetration), so that you lady reaches her orgasm at an all time high. Both oral as well as physical motivation on the boy, generally counts as each separate acts. So, be happy and you use your creativity, to make your sex exciting.
# 2: Blindfold your lady love
The most important sexual organ in our body is not penis or vagina; in fact it is your brain! It is true. If you want to achieve sexual pleasure then blindfold your lady love. By this method, your partner’s sensory organs will become more aware. As she will not know what you will be doing next you can be her sex guide.
# 3: Introduce kinky sex
Make your sex session hot, by introducing kinky sex with your partner. Assuming that your lady won’t like it might not be a wise idea as she might just enjoy it.
Women are actually adventurous than images and sometimes they just want release from the girl next door image to something sexy but with their partners only.
# 4: Open up
Be open to your partner and let your partner be open to you. There shouldn’t be any type of communication gap between you and your partner. Keep on sharing your thoughts and ideas with your partner, during, before or after the act. Communication is the only way to understand what your partner likes and enjoys.
# 5: Give her a nice massage
Better sex is all about sensual touching. You can get your partner excited with a nice sensual body. This sensual touching method will release sex hormones which will further increase her estrogen level and just make her more passionate in the bed.
# 6: Strike the ‘turn-on’ spot
If you want to have orgasms during intercourse then opt for a nice rubbing position. Let your lady be on top of you, so that the top of your clitoris is rubbing on your partner’s pubic bone, or just keep a below underneath your butt or use a vibrator during intercourse to make your session amazing.
# 7: Maximize your foreplay
Before getting naked in front of your partner, dont imagine going for intercourse staright away. Use clitoral stimulation as the climax. As a guy, gear your lady’s body to achieve an orgasm before intercourse, so that your lady is not struggling during vaginal stimulation.
Even if your lady doesn’t get an orgasm early, never give up. Just keep on adding the fun stuffs to aim for a multiple orgasms.
# 8: Just talk about sex with your partner
Don’t wait for the lights to dim off for the sex of your life. Keep the discussion about sex on your partner more frequently. Ask your partner about their likes and dislikes and dont be shy to share what you like and prefer.
# 9: Maintain some eye contact
Its a sign of confidence and can be quite a turn-on. Try and maintain eye contact during sex as well as many people find it very exciting. Its a sign of confidence and also shows that you know what you are doing.
# 10: Give some dirty instructions
Tried dirty talking? Then maybe its time that you do. Almost in everyone’s sex life, there should be always something that they haven’t tried or something that they could have done differently.
To overcome this situation, talk about things or acts you haven’t tried or you would like to try with your partner and get dirty. Dont aim big and start small like sending dirty texts or images.
# 11: Spanking is fun
During your passionate sexual encounter with your partner add a little spanking. It can be a bit awakward in the beginning but keep it light and fun. But keep in mind that if your partner is not comfortable then avoid it.
# 11: Do some kitchen techniques
There are some foods available in your kitchen which can just pump you up to have etter sex. Include foods which have arginine like oysters, fish and lean proteins as all these foods act like Viagra. Besides, these foods are good for you in many ways as they are high in antioxidants as well.
# 12: Exercise your ‘sex’ muscles
Exercise your pelvic muscles to transform your normal sex life into a hot sex life. The best exercise for women is kegels. Do kegels every day by first locating your pelvic floor and then stopping yourself from peeing midway and then tone your muscles by clenching them when you are not peeing.
# 13: Sleep is important
For better sex it is important that you are not sleep deprived. Always focus on better sleep first rather than better sex. If you focus on better sex first, you might ruin the process as lack of sleep can be a major libido killer.
# 14: Watch some porn together
Though men get easily aroused by watching X-rated scenes, it is not the case with the ladies. Women, get tired of the same erotic scenes. Hence, use some new or different type of clipping every time you want your lady to get aroused. In fact, we recommend, instead of just calling her to watch the video, let her search the video by hers, so that she is comfortable with the process.
# 15: Step out from being ‘yourself’
Behave a little differently for better sex with your partner. Play the role of your partner and vice versa during your sex session. This technique will make your sex session more enjoyable as role-playing is a fun way which can lead up-to to great sex.
Source: Healthmeup
