Unromantic partners are every woman’s bane. You send him a text only to have him read it hours later; you cook him a candle light dinner only to have him come home and ask, ‘What’s up?’ Yeah, they don’t seem to have a single romantic gene in their body but the good news is that they do take the effort to occasionally show you that they care. While the gestures may not be what you were looking for, they are extra cute all the same.
He cancels that guys’ night out to be with you: Yes, that’s BIG. For him to let go of all those beer marathons and be with you and also endure his friends taunting him for not following the bro code is a huge I Love You shoutout.
He stands up for you: He may not break into a song each time you walk down the stairs, but if he stands up for you and supports you, you’ve got yourself a winner.
He is always there for you: More than those teddies and expensive gift bags what matters is that he is willing to always be there for you, no matter what the time or place.
He loves to talk: If you have a man who isn’t shy of having conversations, please send us his brother’s number. Opening up to you and sharing his feelings and dreams with you is a big sign right there.
He doesn’t mind doing the dirty deeds: Nope, not in the bedroom. Taking out the garbage, or doing the dishes might not seem like an incredibly romantic gesture but that’s a great way for him to show that he cares.
He respects you (a lot): Respecting you and what you stand for is perhaps the best gesture of love.
You are a big part of his life: From his entire family to those cousins and even his childhood friends, he introduces you to them all. He wants you to be a part of every little thing in his life.
He makes efforts: Romance might not come easily to him but if he makes the efforts for you, however lousy or small, that’s his way of saying that he loves you.
He does a lot of the little things: He might not write you a love poem (Bollywood movies again), but little things like fixing things around the house, or running errands is equally grand too.
He listens: Another big sign because generally most men we know go on auto-pilot the moment women start talking. So if he genuinely listens and remembers what you are saying, hold on to him.
He isn’t afraid of commitment: Commitment is a big deal for men. So if he isn’t shying away from it, you’ve struck gold.
He wants you to be a part of things he loves: From taking you to his monthly cricket matches to sharing books that he loves with you, he is taking the effort to involve you in all parts of his life and that definitely spells love.
He calls you often: While he may not always do this, but that occasional Hi on Whatsapp or a quick email is just his way of saying that he’s thinking of you.
You are always a part of his plans: We aren’t just talking about those Saturday night plans. Whenever he talks about the future, you are a prominent presence there.
Source: iDiva
