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13 Blowjob Myths You Should STOP Believing

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Oral sex can seem baffling if you think about it when you’re not turned on. You’re supposed to put your mouth where? And you would want someone’s face in your most private spot why?

But in the moment, when you’re with someone you’re into, oral sex can seem like a more genius invention than the lightbulb. The only annoying part is when you’re having sex with a guy and certain blow job myths get in the way of both of you enjoying the act as much as possible. Here, 13 blow job myths you should stop believing, stat.

1. Myth: You should swallow even if you’re not a fan.

Unlike green smoothies, semen is not some nutrient-rich elixir. When you treat someone to a mouth-induced orgasm, they don’t get to judge what you do after the fact. Spit, swallow, move out of the way so it doesn’t get in your hair, whatever. As long as you’re not like, “Ew, this is disgusting, you’re a beast,” there shouldn’t be any complaints.

2. Myth: All men are obsessed with blowies, so if a dude doesn’t want one, he hates you. 

There are so many reasons a guy may not be up for a blow job. Just like some women lovereceiving oral sex and others prefer different forms of clitoral entertainment, he might be into a different kind of foreplay. Or he could be saving you from encountering his sweaty post-workout package. Or maybe he wants to talk about his feelings instead of having sex. Point is, it doesn’t automatically mean he doesn’t like you or thinks your blow jobs are awful.

3. Myth: Deep throating is the key to an excellent BJ.

If you can deep throat without issue, go for it. It’s an awesome skill that you unfortunately can’t list on your résumé, so use it when you can. But you can also give a stellar blow job without the head of a penis provoking your gag reflex.

4. Myth: There’s basically only one blow job position.

Actually, there’s a whole wide world of oral sex positions out there beyond you kneeling in front of him. You can try 69, lying next to him, your head hanging off the bed, lying down while he kneels on top of you, and so much more.

5. Myth: A blow job isn’t “real sex.”

For some women, getting face-to-face with a penis is more intimate than having PIV sex. And even if you’re not one of them, you can definitely still get sexually transmitted infections from giving a blow job because you’re exchanging bodily fluids (and you can also get STIs like herpes and HPV from skin-to-skin contact).

6. Myth: It’s normal for guys to push your head down.

Great if it turns you on. But if it makes you feel weird, ask him to stop. Blow jobs should be good for both people, not just the one receiving them.

7. Myth: If your teeth touch his penis, it’ll fall off.

The world won’t end because you experience a little teeth-penis contact. As long as you’re not scraping them up and down his shaft throughout, it’s probably not an issue. Depending on the guy, he might even like it! But definitely ask before doing it intentionally.

8. Myth: You always have to perform a blow job to completion. 

You could. Or you could trade off, so he goes down on you for a bit, then you continue giving him a blow job after. Or you could stop before he comes and have sex until he orgasms. Or you could break up intercourse with some bouts of oral sex. The end goal doesn’t always have to be orgasm.

9. Myth: Your mouth can always provide enough spit to make the act enjoyable.

Cotton mouth happens. Luckily, flavored lube exists! Just be sure to use a type that’s compatible with condoms if they’re a part of your sex routine, and also check that it’s safe for intercourse if you plan on doing that after.

10. Myth: If your BJ skills are up to par, it should be over in a few minutes. 

So many factors can influence how much time it takes a guy to orgasm: when he most recently came, what he’s thinking about, whether he’s holding out because he wants it to last longer…

11. Myth: You need blow-job sorcery for uncircumcised penises.

An uncircumcised penis is still sheathed in its foreskin, which covers the head. A circumcised penis no longer has a foreskin, so the head is exposed. That’s the only difference—they’re both still penises, and guys still like it when you touch them.

Yes, the two types sometimes require different kinds of stimulation, since uncircumcised penises often have more sensitive heads and there’s more skin to play with. But if you’re used to one kind of penis and encounter another, don’t freak out. Just ask the guy what he likes! You have his penis in your hands. He probably won’t mind if you ask exactly how he’d prefer for you to handle it.

12. Myth: If you give your mouth a break, you have to start from the beginning. 

If he’s right on the brink of orgasm and you call a time out, yes, you’ll probably have to put in some extra work to get him back to the point of no return. But if you feel like your jaw’s seizing up, give it a rest. You can use your hands to keep the good feelings going.

13. Myth: You have to love giving blow jobs in order to be sexy. 

You know that whole idea of how nothing’s hotter than a woman who loves giving blow jobs so much, she can practically orgasm from them? False. Enthusiasm is always attractive, but you don’t have to worship at the blow job altar to be attractive yourself.

Source: YourTango.com

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Bae @31: Bad Black bosses with a seductive photo album at her 31st birthday

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By BigEyeUg Team

Whenever the annual calendar clocks to the 5th day of July, social media is buzzed with birthday wishes to Kampala City socialite, Shanitah Namuyimbwa alias, Bad Black.

Bad Black is fond of taking up the day in the news without anybody’s favour but instead on merit of possessing one of one of the highest numbers of following.

Today, Shanitah marks her 31st Anniversary in life and she has got to pomp it in style with a huge volume of photos where she appears at-ease with friends.

The photo album also features her cozy and imminent moments with boyfriend Sky West.

Bad Black and boyfriend, Sky West kiss

She has even run out of words to explain God’s blessings’ abundance to her and territory at an age of 31 because she looks better despite blooming a late age.

Lord am so grateful. 31yrs today it looks good on me. If you indeed bless me & in large my territory,” she wrote.

The mother to three is also astonished by her aging like fine wine and compares herself to an Egyptian goddess.

See how at 31yrs Aging like fine wine no competition but accept am Egyptian goddess,” Black adds.

Unlike her past birthdays where she has hyped the parties with glamorous designs and valuable gifts brought by friends and family, Bad Black is expected to celebrate this in a scientific way, owing to the COVID-19 pandemic.

Here is Bad Black’s full photo album;

Happy Birthday Bad Black!

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Guitarist Charmant Mushaga quietly suffering from depression after breakup with wife Sandra

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By BigEyeUg Team

It’s such a devastating moment for Prominent Congolese guitarist, Charmant Mushaga Buhendwa as he continues to trail his life through a heartbreak after his wife, Sandra Klonka dumping him.

This website has come to learn about the Uganda-based Zaire born musician’s marriage status after he went public to disclose how his relationship with the Hungarian woman doomed just within one year after their wedding.

The Afrigo Band instrumentalist’s revelation comes in after accumulating uncountable messages in his inbox, congratulating him upon his initial wedding anniversary, which in reality he didn’t achieve.

Today I decide to make it clear to all that knew and saw some changes that happened in my life on the 19th of June 2019.

This whole week I’ve been receiving messages in my inbox congratulating me for my first Wedding Anniversary,” he wrote.

In deep sorrow, he says that the matrimonial vows he made with Sandra on 19th June 2019, failed just after 4 Months from the wedding.”

Well on a sad note I regret to say that our marriage failed 4months after our wedding. It’s a long story but it is well,” he added.

Charmant also shared his love woe with Sandra on his WhatsApp status.

You were once my happiness and today you are my greatest sorrow, I wish I never met you, my heart would be at peace …….goodbye Sandra.

Charmant and Sandra got married in a civil suit at the Uganda Registration Services Bureau and had only one child together.

Keep strong Charmant!

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Salvado and wife Daphine showoff their baby for the first time

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By BigEyeUg Team

Babies are like little suns that, in a magical way, bring warmth, happiness and light into our lives.

Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.

Comedian Patrick Salvado and wife Daphine Frankstock are enduring the best moments of their marriage with newly born son, Alexander Idringi Dawa.

Salvado and wife Daphine

Daphine gave birth to baby Alexander was born on 1st July 2020, mid this week.

The couple has paraded a photo of their baby for the first time on-line.

Salvado, Daphine with baby Alexander

Salvado and Daphine have been such an adorable couple since they legalized their relationship in 2019.

With a new job at hand, the Ombokolo born comedian is eager to widely open his wallet, enticing his newly born baby and wife.

We will keep you posted.

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Jose Chameleone’s daughter, Ayla Mayanja graduates

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African music legendary Joseph Mayanja aka Jose Chameleone continues to prove unstoppable when it comes to heaping success in life.

For years now, his hard work and success are undisputed and blessings from God are continuously upon him.

Chameleone who has just of recent been celebrating his daughter Alba Shyne Mayanja’s first holy communion is yet again in barrows of jubilation as his eldest child, Ayla Onsea Mayanja graduates.

On receiving the good news, the self-proclaimed ‘Music doctor’ stormed social media and congratulated his daughter Ayla upon hitting the milestone.

Ayla Onsea Mayanja

He is also desperate to meet his daughter once the COVID-19 Pandemic lockdown is lifted.

Congratulations and enjoy your Graduation day my daughter #Ayla keep shining. See you soon when we breakdown the Lockdown,” wrote Jose Chameleone.

Ayla Onsea Mayanja is singer Jose Chameleone’s firstborn from his first love Griet Onsea a.k.a Dorotia. The two were together in 2002.

Jose Chameleone and the Belgian lady’s strong affection for each other is said to have started in Nairobi after the singer had recorded his first hit songs in his career.

The two relocated to Uganda where their bonding grew heftier and they were blessed with a baby Ayla.

Jose Chameleone and Dorotia during their hail days

Chameleone’s relationship was showy and a heaven mission for them to an extent of the singer recording a song dubbed ‘Dorotia’, hailing her above any other women on planet.

Regrettably, the relationship didn’t last that long for yet undisclosed reasons as they parted ways just immediately after Ayla was born.

This was followed by Dorotia’s repatriation back to her home country together with the baby Ayla.

Since then, the ‘Lord Mayor to-be’ has lived an overseas life away from his child with doomed hope of ever meeting her again in his life.

At the age of 18, Ayala’s focus is majorly into Art, Photography, Fashion and Design field where she developed strong adoration at her tender age.

She last resurfaced on social media when she was celebrating her 18th Birthday on 28th May 2020.

Congratulations Ayala!

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