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10 Tips To Build Strong Relationships

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coupplleIt is not a secret that any relationships face hard times and problems. It is better to be aware of the basics that will help to start building strong ties from the very beginning to feel comfortable with the partner.

1. Use relationships to teach you how to be whole within
Relationships aren’t about having another person complete you, but coming to the relationship whole and sharing your life interdependently. Learn to love the distances in relationship as much as the togetherness.

2. See your partner for who he or she really is

The romantic tragedy occurs when one partner attributes to the other the qualities the latter doesn’t possess. When you realize that more often than not you don’t really know your partner, you begin to discover who they are and how they change and evolve.

3.Learn from each other
Be able to see the other as a mirror and learn from the reflection how you can be a better person. When you feel upset, don’t blame your partner, remain awake to what has yet to be healed in yourself.

4. Get comfortable being alone
In order to accept that love can’t rescue you from being alone, learn to spend time being with yourself. By feeling safe and secure to be on your own within the framework of relationship, you will feel more complete, happy, and whole.

5. Look closely at why a fight may begin
Some couples remain in a vicious circle by fighting and then making up over and over again. This allows you to continue the romantic trance, creating drama and avoiding real intimacy. If you become aware of what you fear about intimacy, you’ll have a better sense of why you’re fighting—and likely will fight far less.

6. Own who you are
Own who you are. We generally grasp at romantic love because we’re yearning for something that is out of reach, something in another person that we don’t think we possess in ourselves. But then we discover that we didn’t get what we were looking for. True love is about loving yourself first. You can only get from another person what you’re willing to give yourself.

7. Don’t be scared of ordinariness
After the fairy-dust start of a relationship ends, we discover ordinariness, and we often do everything we can to avoid it. The trick is to see that ordinariness can become the real “juice” of intimacy. Then everyday lifewith the partner becomes extraordinary.

8. Expand your heart
We all want to be happy, which also includes the desire to be close to someone. To create real intimacy, discover the spaciousness of your heart and bring awareness to what is good within you. It’s easier to find the good in your partner when you’re connected to the good in yourself.

9. Focus on giving love
Genuine love is first about giving. The unintentional outcome of loving others more deeply is that we are loved more deeply.

10. Let go of expectations
You may look to things such as romance and constant togetherness to fill a void in yourself. This will immediately cause suffering. If you unconsciously expect to receive love in certain ways to avoid giving that love to yourself, you will put your sense of security in someone else. Refer to your own resources: offer love, attention, and nurturance to yourself when you need it. Then you can let love come to you instead of putting expectations on what it should be like

Source: Information Nigeria

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Bae @31: Bad Black bosses with a seductive photo album at her 31st birthday

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By BigEyeUg Team

Whenever the annual calendar clocks to the 5th day of July, social media is buzzed with birthday wishes to Kampala City socialite, Shanitah Namuyimbwa alias, Bad Black.

Bad Black is fond of taking up the day in the news without anybody’s favour but instead on merit of possessing one of one of the highest numbers of following.

Today, Shanitah marks her 31st Anniversary in life and she has got to pomp it in style with a huge volume of photos where she appears at-ease with friends.

The photo album also features her cozy and imminent moments with boyfriend Sky West.

Bad Black and boyfriend, Sky West kiss

She has even run out of words to explain God’s blessings’ abundance to her and territory at an age of 31 because she looks better despite blooming a late age.

Lord am so grateful. 31yrs today it looks good on me. If you indeed bless me & in large my territory,” she wrote.

The mother to three is also astonished by her aging like fine wine and compares herself to an Egyptian goddess.

See how at 31yrs Aging like fine wine no competition but accept am Egyptian goddess,” Black adds.

Unlike her past birthdays where she has hyped the parties with glamorous designs and valuable gifts brought by friends and family, Bad Black is expected to celebrate this in a scientific way, owing to the COVID-19 pandemic.

Here is Bad Black’s full photo album;

Happy Birthday Bad Black!

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Guitarist Charmant Mushaga quietly suffering from depression after breakup with wife Sandra

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By BigEyeUg Team

It’s such a devastating moment for Prominent Congolese guitarist, Charmant Mushaga Buhendwa as he continues to trail his life through a heartbreak after his wife, Sandra Klonka dumping him.

This website has come to learn about the Uganda-based Zaire born musician’s marriage status after he went public to disclose how his relationship with the Hungarian woman doomed just within one year after their wedding.

The Afrigo Band instrumentalist’s revelation comes in after accumulating uncountable messages in his inbox, congratulating him upon his initial wedding anniversary, which in reality he didn’t achieve.

Today I decide to make it clear to all that knew and saw some changes that happened in my life on the 19th of June 2019.

This whole week I’ve been receiving messages in my inbox congratulating me for my first Wedding Anniversary,” he wrote.

In deep sorrow, he says that the matrimonial vows he made with Sandra on 19th June 2019, failed just after 4 Months from the wedding.”

Well on a sad note I regret to say that our marriage failed 4months after our wedding. It’s a long story but it is well,” he added.

Charmant also shared his love woe with Sandra on his WhatsApp status.

You were once my happiness and today you are my greatest sorrow, I wish I never met you, my heart would be at peace …….goodbye Sandra.

Charmant and Sandra got married in a civil suit at the Uganda Registration Services Bureau and had only one child together.

Keep strong Charmant!

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Salvado and wife Daphine showoff their baby for the first time

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By BigEyeUg Team

Babies are like little suns that, in a magical way, bring warmth, happiness and light into our lives.

Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body.

Comedian Patrick Salvado and wife Daphine Frankstock are enduring the best moments of their marriage with newly born son, Alexander Idringi Dawa.

Salvado and wife Daphine

Daphine gave birth to baby Alexander was born on 1st July 2020, mid this week.

The couple has paraded a photo of their baby for the first time on-line.

Salvado, Daphine with baby Alexander

Salvado and Daphine have been such an adorable couple since they legalized their relationship in 2019.

With a new job at hand, the Ombokolo born comedian is eager to widely open his wallet, enticing his newly born baby and wife.

We will keep you posted.

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Jose Chameleone’s daughter, Ayla Mayanja graduates

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African music legendary Joseph Mayanja aka Jose Chameleone continues to prove unstoppable when it comes to heaping success in life.

For years now, his hard work and success are undisputed and blessings from God are continuously upon him.

Chameleone who has just of recent been celebrating his daughter Alba Shyne Mayanja’s first holy communion is yet again in barrows of jubilation as his eldest child, Ayla Onsea Mayanja graduates.

On receiving the good news, the self-proclaimed ‘Music doctor’ stormed social media and congratulated his daughter Ayla upon hitting the milestone.

Ayla Onsea Mayanja

He is also desperate to meet his daughter once the COVID-19 Pandemic lockdown is lifted.

Congratulations and enjoy your Graduation day my daughter #Ayla keep shining. See you soon when we breakdown the Lockdown,” wrote Jose Chameleone.

Ayla Onsea Mayanja is singer Jose Chameleone’s firstborn from his first love Griet Onsea a.k.a Dorotia. The two were together in 2002.

Jose Chameleone and the Belgian lady’s strong affection for each other is said to have started in Nairobi after the singer had recorded his first hit songs in his career.

The two relocated to Uganda where their bonding grew heftier and they were blessed with a baby Ayla.

Jose Chameleone and Dorotia during their hail days

Chameleone’s relationship was showy and a heaven mission for them to an extent of the singer recording a song dubbed ‘Dorotia’, hailing her above any other women on planet.

Regrettably, the relationship didn’t last that long for yet undisclosed reasons as they parted ways just immediately after Ayla was born.

This was followed by Dorotia’s repatriation back to her home country together with the baby Ayla.

Since then, the ‘Lord Mayor to-be’ has lived an overseas life away from his child with doomed hope of ever meeting her again in his life.

At the age of 18, Ayala’s focus is majorly into Art, Photography, Fashion and Design field where she developed strong adoration at her tender age.

She last resurfaced on social media when she was celebrating her 18th Birthday on 28th May 2020.

Congratulations Ayala!

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