I am writing this article in spite of the possible danger of being penalized by other men for disclosing our weaknesses, and leaving us – for lack of a better word – defenseless.
I can already hear the shouting, and see the torches being lit in front of my house.
On the other hand, maybe they will celebrate me,because most men want to be seduced. They pray for it.
Like Jason Biggs said in American Pie: “Oh my God, she used me. I was used. I was used! Cool!”
Dear Gals – you want to seduce a man, and you don’t know how to?
Fear not. Help is on the way. I am writing this article only for you.
I thought about things I would fall for, (and have fallen for), as well as asked my friend Brigitte, (the man-eater), for her main techniques.
I realize that there are two common situations here: you want to seduce YOUR man, or you want to seduce ANY man.
Either way, the principles are the same. It really comes down to hitting that “hidden switch” that turns the man on.
Unfortunately, this specific switch is different for every man.
Sometimes it is not even related to physicalness. It can be a word, an image in his head, an expectation. Other times, you can trigger it with an simple smile, a lascivious look, a seemingly coincidental touch.
It is your job to find and explore this “secret switch” for your man.
This article will help you to not only find this hidden turn-on, but will also give you some ideas about how you can win the man you want.
My male readers will discover that several of these techniques can be used to seduce a woman as well. Surprise, surprise.
Maybe we’re not that different after all.
So read on, here are 10 tips on how to seduce a man, (use it cautiously, because with great power comes great responsibility and we men are sooo weak):
1. Choose The Battle-Field Well
Believe me, the “where” is very crucial to your success.
Choosing a sports bar while the Superbowl is on may not be crowned with success. A private dinner, with the appropriate romantic ambiance, on the other hand, will give you the best chances.
Choose places where you can minimize distractions, (and ideally competition). You must have his complete attention.
Besides, the proper surrounding can be very stimulative. Never underestimate the power of candlelight and accompanying soft music.
2. The Power Of Scent
In a survey, 89 % of the men revealed that scent can enhance the attractiveness of a women. 55 % of those polled men went a little further, and admitted that they would get amorous with a women just because of her appealing scent.
Do you believe that? You better! Everybody who has seen or read, Perfume: The Story of a Murderer, would know what I’m talking about.
Scent is one of the most powerful subconscious influences that affect our judgment about the other sex. The way you smell is a vital factor to your success in seduction. You can compare it to pheromones in the animal world.
3. Show A Little, But Hide A Little More
There is a certain way of dressing that drives men crazy. And I certainly don’t mean going slutty. That is a turn-off for most men.
You need to find a compromise between showing and hiding your womanly qualities. It’s the right combination that makes the secret.
I like women who enhance certain body regions without actually showing anything.
Steer clear of the obvious. It is very important that you actually feel sexy.
And don’t forget some killer-lingerie and sexy accessories like bracelets and necklaces.
4. Be Super-Confident
Have the confidence of a supermodel. Be a woman who knows what she wants, and how to get it.
Do you know how to do this?
But be aware – there is also a thin red line. If you overdo it, you will most likely look arrogant instead of confident. You don’t want that. Nobody likes arrogance.
You can start with renewing yourself.
Get a complete makeover – a new haircut, clothes, start losing weight. Never underestimate what a new haircut can do to you.
Also watch your posture. Keep a straight spine with your shoulders back, exposing your chest. Do everything that makes your confidence soar.
Men are very impressed by confidence.
5. Send Signs Of Interest
Now it’s time to spread a little hint to the man that he may actually have a chance with you. Send him little signs of interest from time to time that will make him come forward:
- Show unclenched hands
- Play with your hair or caress other objects. Push your fingers through your hair
- Pick some fluff of his jacket, (even if there is none!)
- Face him directly, and slightly lean forward every now and then
- Wet and bite your lips from time to time
Here again – do not overdo it!
Experienced men can read these signs, the inexperienced, well, even they will feel that something’s going on.
6. The Magic of Anticipation
Now, here’s a good one.
This is a variation of “playing hard to get”, which by the way is very doubtful to work. If overdone, it will harm you more than being of use.
Instead, play a little game called “anticipation”.
Anticipation, excitement, and tension can be a huge turn-on for a man. Delay the gratification. Make two steps forward, one step back.
Create a strong feeling of dissatisfaction in him. A dissatisfaction which can only be resolved by having you. It must never seem to be easy for him.
Contradict yourself!
Use the before mentioned signs of interest, then suddenly show disinterest, ignore him for two minutes. Then start again.
Two steps forward, one step back.
7. Killing Eyes – The French Technique
Start with almost accidental sidelong glances. You can follow up with a direct look.
Now, something starts that can simply be described as playful innocence, (someone once said to me that the French girls invented that).
The moment he looks back, you instantly lower your eyes and put on an embarrassed smile. You can even emphasize it some moments later by looking again, this time longer, and then again lower your eyes.
This is flirting without talking, (we can learn a lot from the French when it comes to lovemaking).
8. Touch Him “Accidentally”
When you reach for something, try to accidentally touch his hand. Don’t make it too obvious. Also, touch him briefly during the conversation to make a point or when he just made an interesting remark about something.
The secret is being playful with casual touches now and then. This creates tension as well as a physical connection. And more importantly, it subconsciously communicates that you’re not interested in “only being friends”.
9. The Power Of Erotic Dancing
This one is short and simple: learn how to dance in an erotic way, and look for an opportunity for him to see. Don’t underestimate the power of this.
Most women love to express themselves on the dance floor. Why not learn it and do it the right way? There are courses on this, or just go to a club, watch and learn.
This is very powerful.
10. The Secret Ingredient
Now, there is a final ingredient to a successful seduction of a man.
He must not feel seduced. He must think that he seduced you, not the other way around. Give him his victory, let him be the hero.
Men like that. It gives them a feeling of security.
Why not take advantage of that, if you get what you want!
Source: LovesAGame
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