No other body part has more names and nicknames than the vagina and that only adds to the mystery surrounding these nether regions. Studies in the past have shown that most men continue to remain in the dark when it comes to our vajayjays. So here are 10 things we wish men knew about our vaginas, if only to give us the pampering and satisfaction that we deserve down there.
1. There is no right or wrong look. Every woman’s vulva is different. She might have a plump, curvy vulva or a thin, elegant vulva. All vulva are beautiful.
2. To satisfy us, pay attention to the clit. Thanks in advance.
3. There is a thing such as too much stimulation and it’s not fun. If you head first to the clitoris, the direct stimulation sometimes hurts.
4. Cut your nails before fingering. The skin in that area is sensitive and any harsh movement can actually damage the skin tissue. It’s a bit like women using their teeth and you know how that feels.
5. Vaginas don’t magically lubricate themselves and it won’t happen with just a few seconds of foreplay. Use a lubricant in case of dry vaginas. That said, it would be nicer if you didn’t jump in on the ride as soon as the lubrication happens. Help us get in the groove too for mutual satisfaction.
6. Porn is not a manual for how to please a vagina. It fosters some really absurd myths about what feels good during sex and many of the positions are assumed for filming angles, rather than pleasure.
7. Ask the vagina-haver how to please a vagina. Talking about sex, sometimes even during sex, on what we want and what we like actually helps. Erogenous zones vary with each woman, so it’s best to ask before proceeding.
8. The G-spot is a contentious issue at best and not every woman has it nor is it supposedly located in the same place. So don’t focus too much on that spot and treat the entire area as an erogenous zone.
9. Every vagina has a distinctive scent and the smell tends to get acidic before our periods and pungent afterwards. It tends to get more noticeable during sex because of the natural lubrication we produce.
10. Licking off chocolate syrup, cheese, whipped cream may all seem like a good idea erotically. But the sugar in these food substances and the bacteria in the cheese puts us at a risk of infection.
Source: iDiva
