Being in a relationship is essentially a rollercoaster of emotions. Learning to live with a new person, letting go of things, trying to always look at the bright side, and not losing your shit at the toilet seat always left up, it’s quite a ride to be a part of a healthy twosome. While crazy emotions are a part of it, there are some things you genuinely shouldn’t be feeling in a relationship. If your partner is making you feel any of these, it’s probably a good idea to walk out now.
1. Feeling unsure about the status of the relationship
If you are made to feel like the relationship is one-sided don’t be afraid to initiate the talk and ask for clarity.
2. Feeling less confident about yourself
The relationship is supposed to complement your awesomeness not make you question it.
3. Feeling unappreciated
If the other person is not making you feel like it’s worth making an effort, it probably isn’t.
4. Feeling anxious about the relationship
A healthy relationship is supposed to make you feel happy (and at times angry) but never anxious and worried.
5. Feeling lied to
If your partner is deceiving you, and if you know it in your heart that there are lies involved, we suggest going with your gut; it’s almost always never wrong.
6. Feeling forced to do things
Be it having sex or being around your partner, if anything feels forced, you need to sit down and have a talk.
7. Feeling constantly criticised
Sure there are things we don’t like about each other, and its okay to point them out once in a while, but keeping someone in a constant state of criticism is not going to work.
8. Feeling alone and neglected
If you are not on their priority list then something definitely isn’t right.
9. Feeling afraid of your partner
Another emotion that you should never feel, no matter what!
10. Feeling taken advantage of
If you feel that your partner is not treating you right, don’t be afraid to talk about it. No one has any right to take you for granted or take advantage of your niceness.
Source: iDiva.com
