Sex is, of course, about feeling pleasure, but if you are someone who likes to try something new with your man, then you should also keep an eye out for signs he is not really feeling be. He might be too nice to actually tell you, but these signs should let you know it’s time to put a stop to whatever you are doing and go about pleasing him in a different way.
LovePanky gives 10 signs he is not into your moves.
1 It’s a flop. The most obvious sign of them all, when the male member is unable to stand to attention, then you really have to question whether he’s enjoying what’s going on. Of course, there are a whole host of reasons for a limp member or male impotence.
2 Watching the box. If the TV gets turned on every time sex is mentioned and porn is hastily played on it from the very start of proceedings, then it may be to distract rather than complement. He may be so bored of having sex with you that he needs the porn to excite him enough to get through it. Not the greatest of situations, and one that requires immediate action by your good self to correct.
3 Suggestive behavior. Do you find that he’s always suggesting new things to do in the bedroom? Maybe you’ve tried these once or twice, or maybe you’ve just outright dismissed the idea. But if he keeps on asking, then it’s because he’s trying to save the physical side of your relationship from the state it’s currently in – and he should be applauded for that.
4 Action man. Is it the case that during the sexual act, he always tries to take over? Maybe you try to give him oral resuscitation, and instead of leaving you to it as you’d expect, he starts dictating method, pace, and technique. Perhaps you try a reverse cowgirl or other move that makes you the more active partner, and he just throws you off and places you in a position that puts the reins back in his hands instead.
5 Wham, bam, thank you ma’am. Does he never really commit to anything much more than a quick roll on and a subsequent roll off? In that case, chances are that he’s getting so little enjoyment from it that he only sees the act as a way to clear his mind and get rid of his sexual frustration. Enjoyment is no longer a part of it.
6 The eyes have it! Always got his eyes closed during sex? That’s probably because he’s trying to visualize a sexual situation that actually excites him enough to get him through the tedious affair that sex has almost certainly become. You need to find a way to open them again!
7 Avoiding the issue. Another sign, almost as obvious as the first on this list, is an avoidance both of sex itself and sex as a subject. If he’s always trying to move on to a different topic whenever sex enters the discussion, then he probably just isn’t into it with you anymore.
8 The great escape. Ostensibly the opposite side of #7, but also kind of the same. The opposite because this sign describes a quick exit on your lover’s behalf at the conclusion of sex rather than prior to it, but similar because they both have occurred for the same reason – the fact that he just hasn’t enjoyed himself.
He has functionally gone through the motions, done his duty, so to speak, and now just wants to distance himself from the scene of the grime. Of course, there may be other real reasons for a swift departure, such as putting out a fire or getting back to work before the boss notices he’s missing, but as a regular occurrence, you need to be thinking about the possibility that maybe you’re not quite as much a sizzling sex bomb as you thought!
9 Seeking aid. Similar to #2, if he can’t get through the act without utilizing a sexual aid of some kind, then he’s almost certainly struggling to raise an interest in you and/or the way you perform.
10 Off to nod. If it needs to be explained that your partner suddenly falling asleep mid-act is a bad sign, then it’s not so much relationship advice that you need rather than a heavy dose of common sense. Time to wake up.
Source: Pulse.ng