Sex is one of those things that keep your relationship spicy and interesting, and it is also very important. Unfortunately, a lot of guys are selfish lovers and most times, leave their girlfriends sexually unsatisified.
It’s no news that a lot of people cheat on their partners because of dissatisfaction where sex is concerned, and the numbers are still increasing.
As a guy, what are those things you need to do to make your woman have an awesome time whenever you have sex?
Here are 10 crazy things she expects you to do to give her earth-shattering orgasms:
1.Make her orgasm before intercourse starts: This is by far the biggest thing women wish men could do more of in bed. Sadly, men don’t do this – instead, they clumsily run through the intercourse as fast as possible – they rush through foreplay and go straight for the kill. This isn’t what women want. If you can make her orgasm before you penetrate her, then it’s guaranteed to be good sex in her book, even if you don’t last as long as you’d like. Also, giving her an orgasm will make her more responsive and more likely to have another orgasm during intercourse. Sex becomes better for you, and for her.
2. Pay attention to non-obvious erogenous zones: A lot of guys only pay attention to ‘obvious’ spots on a woman’s body when trying to give her sexual pleasure. These include her breasts, clitoris and g-spot. But the truth is, women don’t want you to only pay attention to these spots – they want you to pay attention to their whole body! Why? Because there are 16 other ‘hidden’ erogenous zones on her body that can give her pleasure, and which can also make her more responsive to vaginal stimulation.
3. Last longer in bed: Women totally hate it when a man shoots off too soon because it prevents them from having orgasms. How would you feel if a woman got you close to an orgasm, then all of a sudden stopped, rolled over, and went to sleep? Yes, that’s how annoying it is. If you really want to drive women wild, then you should learn how to last over an hour in bed. Of course you can have a ‘quickie’ every now and then, but most of the time women will need a minimum of 30 minutes of intercourse to have multiple orgasms.
4.Tease her till she begs for it: Many women have complained that the typical man in bed does almost no teasing. What women want is for you to build up to a sexual action with teasing until she’s practically begging you for it. For instance, with oral sex, most men just dive right in. What would turn her on much more is if you kiss up her inner thighs, and breathe warmly on her vagina. Then, so lightly she can barely feel it, run your tongue over her clitoris. Do this until she’s begging you to give her more, and then give her the gratification. She’ll enjoy it about a hundred times more.
5.More oral sex: A lot of guys shy away from giving their women oral sex. Their most common justification is: “it’s OK, I’m good with my fingers.” This is just like a girl telling you: “I don’t give blowjobs … but it’s OK, I’m good with my hands.” It’s just not the same. If you know how to do it right, giving her oral sex is the fastest and easiest way to give her orgasms. Plus, once you make her finish through oral sex she’ll be much more responsive during intercourse and more likely to go down on you. Give your girlfriend plenty of oral sex, and she will love you for it.
6.Turn her on with your words: Some men are afraid to say anything or make any noise in bed because they’re afraid the woman will think they’re cheesy or weird. But if they were to listen in on private female conversations, they would know the exact opposite is true. A woman rather find it strange when a guy who is completely silent in bed, because she doesn’t know whether or not he’s even enjoying it. It’s a turn-off. Think about it: would you be turned on more by a woman who lay there as silent and still as a corpse, or a woman who screaming your name in pleasure and telling you she loved what you’re doing to her? You need to learn how to be vocal in bed, and how to turn a woman on through sexual talk.
7.Use more sexual eye contact: Have you ever had an orgasm while looking into your partners eyes the entire time? It is one of the most intensely pleasurable experiences you can have. Any woman who has experienced this before craves more of it. Avoid the typical routine of turning off all the lights and just grunting and pounding away in the dark. Start to work some eye contact into your sexual encounters, and see how much it turns her on. Of course you have to learn how to do this in the right way, but once you do, she’ll love it.
8.Pay attention to her after sex: After sex, she is completely open and vulnerable to you. A lot of guys squander this time by ignoring her after sex, or by just going to sleep. Women don’t ‘come down’ from sexual pleasure as quickly as men do, so she’s going to want you to hold her and be close to her while she does. She’ll definitely enjoy sex much more if you just spend a few minutes doing this.
9.Get her to perform for you: Men are so obsessed with ‘putting in a good performance’ in bed, and to some extent this is not a bad thing. But if you need to be ‘performing’ for her all the time, then this can be a big turn-off for her. She wants a guy who can also set up situations where she can perform for him. For instance, a lot of women like giving blowjobs if the guy can get her thinking about them the right way. If you can get her to ‘perform’ for you like this – especially if she’s doing something she usually doesn’t do for other guys – it’ll be a huge sexual thrill to her. Think about the rush you get from giving her a huge orgasm. This is what she’ll experience if you know how bypass her inhibitions and get her to ‘perform’ for you in bed.
10.Learn how to give her orgasms: Men typically find it hard to seek out coaching to become better in bed. Their egos get in the way, and they like to think that they know it all even if their sex lives could use a lot of improvement. From a woman’s perspective, this doesn’t make a whole lot of sense. After all, to learn any other less important skill, you would seek out information on how to do it. This is exactly what women wish you would do in the bedroom. Because no man was born knowing all the secrets of giving women orgasms, and have to learn. Most men learn the hard way, by arduous trial and error over the course of many years. But at the end of the day, it’s totally worth it.
Source: Pulse.ng