If you are looking to spice up your sex life, you need to make the effort and try something new from time to time.
Whether you are a newbie or have been getting it on for years,we all need those extra little titbits and reminders that will help us have amazing sex.
Here are 10 ways to make things hotter in the bedroom.
1. Be the boss
Sure, mutual pleasure is key to a great sex life, but there is something to be said for enjoying a dominant/submissive situation. You can try taking turns being the dominant one. Telling your partner what to do is a major turn on for both parties: not only does it mean you can direct them to the exact spots that make you go weak at the knees, it also feels good to be in charge from time to time.
2. Get toys
Toys are not just for masturbation purposes alone. They are a great way of spicing things up and experimenting with what feels good. There are so many great gadgets out there nowadays, that even the most uncertain of lovers should be able to find something they want to try.
3. Leave the bedroom
Sometimes, all you need to greatly increase the hotness quota in your bedroom is simply get out of the bedroom. Next time you are out and about, why not try dragging your partner to the nearest convenient spot and having a quickie there and then?
4. Lights on
Men are turned on by what they see and having the lights on can make things so much hotter. You can both both pay attention to each other’s bodies and really get into it. If you are feeling a bit self-conscious, dim the lights, or light some candles for more flattering scene.
5. Tie each other up
You can try using something soft like scarves and take turns tying each other up. It increases that sense of helplessness for the person who is restricted. The other partner gets so turned on due to the feeling of dominance.
6. Watch something dirty
Thanks to the internet, porn is now everywhere. There are so many different types to choose from and you can even discover new fantasies you both might want to try out.
7. Talk about fantasies
We all have those extra special things that turn us on in the bedroom, why not make these fantasies a reality? You should be able to share your fantasies with your partner, if they are open minded and you trust them, sharing and even acting out your fantasies can be totally awesome.
8. Talk dirty
If the art of nasty talk does not come easy for you, start with the basics. You can go with, “You feel so good inside me,” “I love it when you do that,” and so on. Some people are happy to get seriously into dirty talk, while others prefer to keep it light. Find your limits together and this can be a way of not only spicing things up, but getting closer, too.
9. Get rough
There is something extremely hot about getting a little rough in the bedroom. For some, being pushed up against a wall and kissed roughly is enough, while others want to go full 50 Shades of Grey. Start slow and build up, and you may discover that being rough is something that is a major turn on for both of you.
10. Touch yourself
Touching yourself in front of your partner is hugely erotic. It shows confidence, which is a turn on in itself, is visually stimulating, and shows that you trust your partner enough to do a usually intimate and personal act in front of them.
Source: Pulse.ng
